Been into the lifestyle for 13 yr as a sub. Knowing and commen sense is where the facts play in. Safe,Sane and Secure! Make sure you know what the person is into fully and never assume anything. Use a safeword until both partner's get comforable without having it.
Know and respect each other's limits and No means No! there is no excuse for abuse or is it legal. It can be a great exp, if you know what your doing.
Dom=Dominant,Sub=Submissive,Slave,Master,Mistress,Top,Bottom,switch. Incase any that don't know what someone is talking about. Always be sure to have safecalls--make sure you at least let friends or someone know that your ok and where your at,no matter how much you trust the person. I myself made a mistake a long while back of not doing that and well i got hurt over it!
Anyone tht is into the lifestyle know's what to do and what not to do!
Figured i'd just start a topic :) Lisa








